For the Men...

For most of you this will come as no surprise, but a woman takes a little longer to warm up than you do... She needs to be gently caressed and romanced into action. A woman needs to be seduced. Foreplay is everything. And simply taking off your clothes - no matter how provocatively - doesn't count. Nor does asking her if she wants to f*@k. You can do better!

Foreplay can begin at dinner, or in the car, or walking down the street together. It can start with a breathy kiss on her neck, a caress along her arm, or a longing look across the table... Foreplay can be anything. But you need to know your lady if you have any hope of finding what works for her. And if you don't know - ASK her! If she knows herself at all, which you definitely want!, she'll know what she likes.

In your efforts, please keep in mind a few important tips.

• You should always treat her with respect. Even if she wants you to talk dirty to her while you pull her hair... Don't be disrespectful or rude.
  
• Your lady should always feel like she is the only woman for you. Make her feel special and wanted. And she should do the same for you!
• Good sex is as mental or emotional as it is physical for most of us of the fairer sex... If your lady is in a good place mentally and emotionally, then she's more likely to be in a good place sexually.
• This should come as no surprise, but... If you are focused on satisfying your lady, you will ALWAYS be satisfied.
  

And finally, love is a two-way street. You should be equal partners - both of you 100% committed to the happiness of the other. And even in the most perfect partnerships, a relationship takes work. You have to keep talking to each other! If you have a disagreement or a problem, then talk about it. Don't let something fester... get it out, figure it out, and move forward together.